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Hi JustHere,
It looks like I’m late in replying, but I just want to ask…
Have you moved out yet? You know, you don’t need to tell him when and if you are moving out. Wait until he’s at work, hire some guys (BIG guys, just in case he returns!!) and just do it. It only takes a few hours. Bonus if you don’t tell him your new address. Leave your stuff in storage if you have to.
Leave a physical note (and then promptly block him electronically). Write: “I can’t believe you could convince a young, beautiful girl to move in with you. I moved in with you, despite any doubts and trepidation, purely out of the goodness of my heart. And like the unevolved you managed to blow it by texting some girl that your living arrangement was “difficult” and then you had the audacity of yelling at me. There was no reason to yell at me, you can talk to me respectfully. Now you can use this well deserved alone time to work on your spirituality. Namaste.”
Please. Just Leave.
Inky