Dear Mepina:

Your mother wanted the child that you were to not act like a child, a fundamental… misunderstanding on her part.

You wrote: “I had seen the issue some time ago.. even if I have fount the root.. I can not solve it.”

You have seen the issue with your intellect, your Rational Mind. But you have not seen the issue with your heart, your Emotional Mind. How do I know it? Because you wrote regarding her silent treatment of you/ withdrawal from you: “that was quite a punishment I guess”- you wouldn’t be guessing, if you saw the issue with your heart.

Her withdrawal from you, do you remember how it felt?

anita