Pearce,

I did read your last reply to my other topic, thank you. You are very gifted in not only showing me a  different perspective but in helping lift my spirits. You have so much positive advice, wisdom and strength.

From your reply, I was able to see that I am seeking an answer as to “why”my ex did what she did and also the how (“how could she have done what she did?”)  And you are right, I cannot ever understand, only she can. It’s not up to me to understand.  I need to focus on learning from the pain.

Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.