Dear wildoceanflower:

Maybe the other people you perceive to be happy, fortunate; winners, maybe they are not these things if they “are allowed to moan about how their kids test them and make life difficult..in fact, i hear my ex is the one who is unhappy again…”

You believe that you are “a loser”- having this belief day in and day out is very unfortunate. It makes peace of mind and contentment impossible.  This is making me think this very moment: I don’t have children and I  believe that makes me a winner! Can you imagine that? I believe it makes me a winner because I didn’t bring innocent life into this world where there is so much pain.

anita