I understand. Is it so that anxiously attached people are also anxious outside relationships? Because I thought this only manifested itself in intimate relationships

For example, I notice that I get anxious when I perceive abandonment (like her telling she is not coming). She on the other hand doesnt seem so anxious in a relationship but very much so outside.  I on the contrary am not so anxious outside a romantic relationship

she turns to me for comfort but you cant have the best of both worlds

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