I suppose it wasn’t necessarily ‘eye opening’, rather than affirmative of what you mentioned above.  And she did touch on the subject of me not being available either, and need to be, in order to have a loving and healthy relationship.

Also part of my ‘problem’ is that I don’t believe right now that I will meet someone great, or that I deserve someone great who will treat me right.

Thank you Anita, your words and advice have truly helped me.