Lucas,

What you should is up to you.  That is figuring out how to live your life according to what is right for you.

I find that it is good to be aware of what is your hierarchy of values you live by in order to guide how you live.

I know for myself is that I need to love myself first and foremost in order to bring that out into the world.

I believe that most of us who are caregivers have a real hard time taking care ourselves.

There is religion and life philosophies that help guide as well.

Mark

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