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February 9, 2018 at 11:00 am
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MarkParticipant
Alexandra,
I believe that for the most part we don’t do or say things “on purpose” but we fall back to automatic and unconscious behavior. It is one thing if he was conscious about it which in some ways easier to change.
People’s behavior shows who they are. I don’t try to change them or expect them to change because it is unconscious. I just decide whether it is tolerable for me to be around or not.
Mark
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