Hello Anita,

To be quite honest – my approach is going to be self based.  My parents are so beyond insane, and unable to understand anything.  There is no possibility of directing anything TOWARDS them.  In fact, it will make them more angry and combative, and increase stress further.  IT has been a vicious cycle in the past when I tried to do such in a cool calm and collected way.

Unfortunately, it will have to be me blowing off punches – but also somehow being able to have a firm stance as well.