Dear joanna:

Thinking about this man, Tom, keeps him in your company, that is, you are not alone. He is there. Sort of making believe he is there. He is not physically there with you, but when you think about him, you make believe he is there, with you, that you are not alone. Am I correct?

If I am, do you remember when you were young, after your parents getting a divorce, and you were at your mother’s home (not at your father’s) if you thought a lot about your father, making believe he was there with you?

anita