Hey Eliana
I believe I do as well! I know I am settling to a degree. I am trying to keep a optimistic mindframe about it and the possibilities because I know that I have not made myself available to him.As far as making time to spend with him. And I can’t help but feel like part of that reason is due to not wanting to go through the motions. If it doesn’t flow natural and freely I can’t force it. Even when I text about certain things for example:yesterday he mentioned he was with his kids at a park and i asked which one and sent a text about a park that I like. I received no text back of engagement “o really I like that one, or I never been there we can go there one day” Nothing! I’m getting the feeling you are right about this. And maybe he is just playing along so he doesn’t loose Me but he subconsciously senses he I am not ready for more so he is doing bare minimum. it is creating frustration in me though. He texts me every morning and through the day to see how or what Iam doing but that doesn’t cut it. I don’t ask for much but I’ve expressed my feeling of lack of interest in me as a person before and that is what he mentioned”you don think I care about you, i text you everyday to see how u are etc” like that is enough. Not to mention as I’ve stated he lives with his mother and I kind of get the feeling he is a bit of a mommas boy. He’s mentioned the fact he has put his mom before the woman he has dated an admitted that he thought that also became a issue for whom he was with. Smh I feel foolish. I know eventually I will have to move on. I have to be honest with myself and the things I’m seeing an what I want in a relationship in the future. & considering circumstances this just isn’t it. The lack of chemistry and conversation for me is a deal breaker alone though. How do i move on from this, do i tell him it’s best we move on or just let him figure it out.?Naturally sense we have been involved I have feelings for him but like i said sex is just not enough