Dear Cass:

Can you give me an example of something rude he told you?

You asked: if he was embarrassed about the age thing, why peruse anything… if he told his friends about you, why didn’t he make it official, since he told you he had a big heart for you, why break up with you two weeks later.

These are good questions to ask if people were purely logical beings. But we are primarily emotional. This is why one can ask: why did you continue with him even though he was rude with you, even though he refused to make it official, and so on.

Because we are primarily emotional beings, not logical robots. Back to your questions about him, here are possible answers: because he was emotionally attached to you, because he was conflicted, because he was afraid, because he was angry, because .. he felt this or that.

Back to my first question on this post…?

anita