“I hate games like this. I wish I could just tell her in person ‘ hi,  I know we had a rough ending and have both gone our separate ways. But, I can’t help how I feel about you and wanted to ask u if you would consider giving us one more try. If not then I will not ever ask this again. But if you have any feeling in your heart. Isn’t it worth a try?’ “

This scenario won’t happen because she has already told you that she won’t meet with you. You asked her, and she won’t do it.

“if you were a person that was truly in love with someone( I felt it in my bones with her the way she acted with me), but had a bad break up. And then came around later. How would you take that?”  

If I really missed him and wanted to see him, I’d be thrilled to hear from him and I’d say to him “I’m so happy you contacted me! I’ve missed you!”, and I would meet with him. She has done none of these things. She doesn’t want to meet with you and has stopped texting you.

“Or is there something more or less I should say?”

I don’t believe that there is anything more or less that you can say to make a person miss you and want to be with you. She either does or she doesn’t.

If you just absolutely need her to spell out for you what she wants before you can resume your life, then I’m with anita: “Ask her then, clearly, directly, with no dramatics, no excess words, no going on about how you feel. Be pragmatic, to the point. Let her know that you will not argue with her answer, that you will not plead your case, that you will accept her answer graciously and make the call short.”

There is one thing you wrote in your last post that I don’t understand: We made a lot of memories together in the year we were together considering the distance between us. What does “considering the distance between us” mean?

B