I managed to spend five days with my ex and kids at my parent’s place. I had great times with my kids, they were so happy to see me. We did a lot of things like a regular family, kids loved it. Hiking, swimming, going to circus, going out to have drinks….

She was ok I guess, she cried a few times. We did talk a little. She told me it was too hard for her to leave Argentina because of her new boy-friend. That maybe the kids would go to school in France for two months then go back to Argentina with her.

I told her we should take one step after one-other… According to her she is too old for another start and should play safe and go back to Argnetina.

So why did she sold everything and brought everything to France? Didn’t look like a two month holiday vocation to me.

I really like/respect her but I am starting getting mad about her changing her mind.

It’s time for her to think about herself she told me.

But I am sure her new boy-friend is begging her to come back everyday on the phone. Convincing her she would never be happy again.

I’ve been very respectful and kind to her, not pressuring her…

Kids are starting school next monday, maybe she will realize the benefits of them living here.

I don’t mind raising my kids alone, but I would be really pissed off if a guy ,she didn’t even knew a year and a half before, jeopardizes my kids future.

That the thing I don’t get… She came here by her own will… I was 12.000 km away when she decided to sell everything and move here… It’s not like I was pointing a gun at her head for her to pack and bring the kids…

The Boys are really happy here, I can’t imagine them moving back to Argentina, specially now…

But I don’t want to argue with her either, I don’t want her to feel umcomfortable.