Dear Risha:

I am not a psychiatrist or a medical doctor of any kind, but I feel comfortable enough to state that this man, your ex  boyfriend is insane. Not  selfish but making  no sense.

So you see, when you are “very hurt”, feeling “worthless  and lost”, you are  giving  an insane  man the power to  determine  your worth. No need for you to feel lost because an insane  man expresses his insanity to you!

Don’t you see  that he  is  not well, mentally, to the  point of having  little to no concept of reality (that he has a girlfriend, that he is about to marry her, that he told you to move on, to forgive  him and move  on, etc., etc.)?

anita