So, first let me say, i’m not counting on this or anything.  More of a curiosity thing.

Since you were in a similar situation ( I don’t know the details), My break up was pretty bad.  Afterwards she felt I betrayed her trust by confiding in her friend and i did get kind of crazy.

Lets say down the road, maybe years from now or not.  Having that feeling of betrayal.  Even though it was nothing like cheating or anything.  But feeling like you were lied to and betrayed.  Is that something you would be able to overcome and over look, or would you always have an issue?

I know for me.  Even if she had cheated on my(which i have no idea if she did or not(even emotionally).  I love her enough that I would try to work through it and try to rebuild.  But then again that’s me.  I’m not the one the broke up with her.  Just curious about a woman opinion on something like this.

I’m not looking for hope or something to cling on to.  Just a curiosity of mine.  My girlfriend I have now.  She knew about my ex, but didn’t know i was talking to her as much as I was.  When she found out she was really hurt I have caused trust issues.  She loves me enough that she wants to push through and rebuild the trust she once had in me.  I feel awful about it btw.  That is not the person I really am.  I was in a bad place and didn’t know what i was doing.  still no excuse.