Hi Anita,

Thank you for your reply. The feeling of security and calmness came from his patience and understanding of me. When I feel uncomfortable or nervous about our relationship, he is really good at being logical and calming me down. He also accepts who I am and understands me more than I have experienced before. There is an element of financial security that comes from him which isn’t a huge factor, but is still there. The big problem is that even with this, I’ve always felt like something is off and not quite right with the relationship.