I understand that people can be in love so see that it messes with their entire being but seeing your posts so often, every now and then….it seems you don’t need a woman in your life, you need a person to take care of you like a nanny or a mother ….

If it’s love, you would improve as a person with her love… If there is deterioration in your mental state just because you feel you are in love with someone, I think it wasn’t love at all…

Furthermore, unless you let your mind go to other things, obviously she will be weighing on your mind day in and day out… A grown man like you need not sigh like a teenager over some girl. There should be some level of maturity in how you handle things like make some goals for yourself- in next two months, I would not think of her, in next four months I will forget her existence, further six months down the line, see yourself anew.

Take care