One thing I’ve noticed. Good and bad is that my girlfriend seems to have the same insecurity issues I did with my ex.

The good is that her being that way with me really makes me see the type of person I was. The bad is that it is u attractive. That feeling of always being questioned about anything I do or don’t say. It does put a strain on the relationship. And then the good/bad combo. Isthat seeing that strain on us really makes me realize that if that was the problem that it does make sense why she wanted a break and then did leave me and that if this continues. I don’t know if this relationship might end up the same but by my choice. The universe is very screwed up. That’s for sure.

But one good thing is that my girlfriend and I do talk about this stuff whereas my ex and I didn’t. I was just left assuming and she wouldn’t tell me what we both needed her to.