Anita

Yes that is correct I’m staying at my sister’s house until after Christmas. The only reason I’m here right now and not at my house is because my dad had ankle surgery and cant bear weight on his leg for a few weeks, so he is staying here at my sister’s house. So my whole family plus my sister’s boyfriend are here right now.

My sister was going to take care of him this week but had to work, so I decided she needs a break from my parents so I stepped up and am staying with him this week. I’m also rebuilding my old car that blew up last year while my dad had a restraining order against my mom.

This is a difficult situation caring for someone who has hurt me and my family so much, but he has no one else to take of him. Funny how that works.

II hear your statement about building new pathways in my brain. I think when I became aware of my issues I thought the work was done, not realizing just how deeply ingrained these beliefs are. Just like any other goal I want though I realize I’ll have to work for peace of mind and compassion and it may take time, but I’m committed to it nonetheless.