Dear IpkR09:

You are very  welcome. Like you wrote: “I have to live my  life now.. Can’t wait till others give their clearance”- can’t be clearer or wiser than this.

Better not let your sister review your stories, better not let her review anything  at all about your life, including your relationship considerations. Don’t wait for her to come  around. She is holding on to some sense of power that your paternal grandfather let her enjoy. I don’t  think she will be giving that up.

And yes, do  post again anytime and   I will be glad to reply to you.

anita