Also… what would happen if your ex came to you tomorrow and said she wanted to start over and be with you again and told you everything you wanted to hear? What would you do about your situation with your current girlfriend then? Because even if your ex came back, you still have this problem of your girlfriend depending on you.

I forgot to answer this…

Honestly I don’t know what I would do.  I think I would tell her it is over and we need to figure out her living situation, however I wouldn’t put her in dire straights either.  That is a very tough question.  fortunately I know that my ex wouldn’t do that.  It would take a her a lot to swallow her pride and admit that she did wrong and was wrong.  She is a very proud and stubborn woman.  I still think that she was already talking to someone before we split up and she still can’t admit it, although she had said things several times that suggested it.  Just like one time when we were texting about 9 months ago, she said that i was just guilty as things as she was.  Well according to her she did nothing wrong, so what would she be guilty of then??  I guess statements like that help me think about the person she really is, although it is still very hard to not want to be with her again.  It is so hard to explain these feelings i have.  Very defeating and frustrating.