Dear Anita,
No benefit in accommodating her delusions, her distorted thinking
Better stick to correct thinking, that which fits reality
Have your loyalty be to reality, keep your focus on it.
That AZ experience was no benefit to anyone, well except that my mother could gloat “oh my daughters look how supportive they are, look how much they care for one another and their mother.” but quickly – oh you’re leaving so soon. NO benefit to anyone, just distress upon distress. Distress breeding more distress. Dysfunction breeding more dysfunction.
All because of a delusional definition of what SUPPORT and help is. The mother’s distorted definitions.
No use of it. Needing help for rent, but then signing up for now two dogs to roam freely. Where does that time, money, and energy come from? The air? No, sister, it does not.
Best to prepare. How shall I do so. I would like to brainstorm here…
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 