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Dear Princess123
He throws you away, then wants you back, he calls you names, you are forever arguing… he blackmails you, and manipulates you.
You don’t need someone like that in your life.
now while writing this my bf video called me 5 time 2 misscals .because i m nt replying him and told him i m just sleeping.he is texting me if i am okey? or dont hurt ur self ,i am getting tense .
i dont get this man seriously what he wants?
Like others have said, block him from your phone. Refuse to play his games anymore, because that’s what they are, psychological games. Drama games. He is manipulating you. Asking you if you are ok, asking you not to hurt yourself… all this is meant to remind you that you are the one with the problems. Either that or he wants to know that you are falling apart without him… it gives him control and satisfaction if you do.
What does he want? To treat you any way he wants. Disrespecting, blackmailing, arguing over every little thing, turning things around to make it look like you are the one who is at fault….
Ask yourself – do you really want someone like this in your life?
Next time he calls, no excuses. Just simply say, ‘it’s over between us. Please do not call me again.’ And cut all contact.
Let your friends and relations know they might receive some calls/texts from him and that he is seeking revenge because you are trying to get him out of your life. They will understand.
Life is too short to let this person make you unhappy over and over again.
With best wishes,
Jay