I feel like there are some things I’m leaving out but I don’t want to get too personal. I will say he’s a loner, brags a lot in my opinion, very alpha male. Very confident in what he does and in his decisions.  Gives you the impression he’s an a hole until you talk to him and he’s cool to talk with.  Not attached to anything moved away from kids to different state after divorce.

To be honest  there’s about 4 good looking women in my office and I’m one of them.  I used that to feed his ego and get his attention.  I told a lot of jokes.  I think I may have been in a manic state when I started flirting/hitting on him.  But my mania is panic attacks, poor boundaries, irritability, drop in focus, poor decision making. It’s on the spectrum.  I’m an extroverted introvert.  Not a lot of close friends we had a lot in common as far as dogs, movies, people, life.