Dear Lindsey:

You are welcome. He may very well be a rude person, a person who is dishonest and so forth. I don’t know him. But this is why it is better to know  a man before getting sexually involved, to know him gradually over time, that way you don’t get in too deep with a man you.. later figure you don’t like at all.

You wrote: “I worry when he sees me he wants to run the other way”- what is it that bothers you about him running the other way, what is the danger for you in him running the other way?

anita