Dear IpkRO9:

I want to make sure I understood correctly: am I understand correctly that

1. Your parents are highly influenced by your sister, that she has power over them and that if she disapproves of a man for you, they are likely to go along with her, and therefore their approval is dependent on her approval?

2. Your sister has been competitive with you for many years, is not honest and open with you, doesn’t seem to care what you think and feel, doesn’t ask you questions as to what you think and feel, and you are very doubtful if she has your well being in heart and mind?

anita