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Dear anita,
yes, I also have a good feeling about the new living arrangement. And I think you are right about not sharing too much. Maybe it’s best to talk about cooking, exercising and other small talk topics… Clearly I don’t want to talk about my personal problems and leave them for therapy and maybe share them with a good friend.
Hopefully everything works out. The only thing I worry about is that their landlord (everyone has an individual contract with the landlord) will think that I don’t earn enough money. But I do earn more now, enough that I could be (almost) independent from my parents. But on the phone today the landlord asked about my income, and she seemed o.K. with it and also stated that it is important to her that the two roommates are happy with their choice. So… it looks good I think!! But I’m not quitting my old contract until I sign the new one.
You are right about the fortune teller, the things she said were vague and could apply to most people. It was an interesting story I guess and something like that doesn’t happen everyday. Maybe I could even include it into a little comic story in the future. A story about a cursed child and a dark past and maybe include some historic background, family secrets… I like this kind of stories. But I will see…
- This reply was modified 5 years, 5 months ago by Lily.