Dear Anita,

I will define SCC (here is a start at least)

1. OVER-engaging
   1. this goes beyond Friendly, to over-involved and consumed.  Not knowing when to “walk” away and go back to one’s self.  SCC gets immersed and engrossed in the other person’s conversation
2. Angry
   1. This may sound strange but SCC is angry.  Why? Because she has to be super of course! Deep rooted anger comes from the need to be super. ALWAYS. Not better and superior, but SUPER.  Super in the sense of always achieving one’s own sense of as good as possible.
3. Impulsive/Impatient
   1. SCC is always in a fury or frenzy.  She wants the results yesterday, she wants the decision tomorrow.  She has very little patience, and therefore can be impulsive.  She does not realize always that the world does not run on her “super” schedule – nor would it be healthy for it to.  Patience that all will be well, and in time – is key.
4. Faith (less)
   1. Overall, SCC lacks faith that things will work out just fine. She feels the need to “make them fine.” Sure in some ways that can be beneficial.  Efforts can succeed. But when it comes to important things in life – calm is key.  Patience and calm.
5.  Feeling the need to share
   1. SCC Notoriously does not enjoy something unless it is shared with others.  It is not bragging, it is sharing and allowing others to engage and enjoy the experience.  She thus dilutes it for herself most of the time, or is so caught up in explaining to others, she misses the joyful moment of her own

There’s a start..