Dear Cali Chica:

“There’s a start” in an academic paper about Super Cali Chica. As I started reading it, it quickly became clear to me that, for example, you can’t decide now to not be over-engaging in the future. And how can anyone possibly draw the line between engaging and over engaging while in a social interaction.

There is only one way I see, one concrete way to bid SCC farewell, and that is in you practicing Calm That will make a… CCC, Calm Cali Chica. This means the following: you slow down everything, your very movements, your speech, everything. Nothing else can train the overly excited neurons to relax.

This is not easy to do, goes against the grain. I don’t mean that you move in slow motion, but slower, slower than before. Talk slower than before. Everything slower.

anita