Dear Tania,

I am glad you have come to a decision to end this relationship that has turned into an obsession.  Let me assure you that you are not a mess.  This person has been giving you the attention that you ‘crave’ from him.  He is feeding a need in you.  Rejection is always painful and I am guessing that you have both been feeling rejected, even though it initially came from him.  He hurt you and you proceeded to hurt him for seven years respectively.

I don’t think it matters how you end it but ‘thank you, it was nice while it lasted but we both know it isn’t going anywhere’ kind of text would give you both a chance to end it with dignity.  Then change your phone number, delete snapchat and become unavailable.

You have so much going for you.  I am sure your husband and your dog won’t say no to some extra attention.

Peggy