Anita,

Thank you, I will post often as I find a lot of comfort in your replies; they are full of wisdom and insight.  I had a counselor appointment this morning and it went well.  I had not seen her in about a  month so we had a lot of catching up to do.  I have a name for a mediator that I’m going to call and schedule an appointment so we can get everything underway with the divorce.

She obviously thinks I should only be friends with K and that I’m in trouble in a sense because I have feelings for him and it will be hard with his back and forth actions.

Lindsey