Hi Alecsee,

One word of advice – throw away the rule book.  Everyone is different.  Every relationship you ever enter into will be different.  The ending of this short term relationship, four months, has really got you steamed up, hot under the collar, angry.  No-one likes rejection.  This woman has let you down by not having unprotected sex and a threesome!  Why would that feel to her like you were motivated by love – she thinks you just want her for sex, remember.  I don’t know where she got it from, do you?

She doesn’t want your help – you are out of her life!  There’s no way you can help her.  You can help yourself by putting your failed relationships behind you and finding other activities to fill your time instead of dwelling on the past.  The only time you have is now so start living in the present.

Peggy