Hi Maria,

Spending two years in a relationship with a woman in her mid thirties would be a lot of pressure for a guy.

Add the neediness/vocalizing what’s wrong with the relationship, him making sounds of moving in together and getting a puppy, that sent him over the edge.

Is marriage and a family YOUR ultimate goal? If so, then you need to get very clear with these guys, and dump them without a moment’s hesitation if the relationship is not progressing.

If you just want somebody to love, then no more neediness and grasping. Just enjoy the ride!

Best,

Inky