Dear Cali Chica:

If you talked like that to a child, be it retroactively to the child that you were, or to any child- that child will in no way be able to hear such things and accept those things, no way. Nor will the child be comforted. Most adults will not be comforted by this kind of reality talk- this is why so many people on this website do not reply back to me when I do point this kind of reality to them. And I know that most will not be back (this is why as I stated many times before: you are an exception, and you are therefore amazing)!

The child that you were, any child “born into bad”- will think any which way to make believe she is born into good and/ or that she is able to make it good- the latter is what is behind SCC.

I think that your anger, the emotion behind the ROAR is motivated by this task, necessary for the child, fix the injustice so to make that born-into-bad situation, or fate, into born-into-good situation.

If mom is mad because other people are lucky and she is unlucky, why I will make those lucky people sorry for being lucky, I will show them, I will… (whatever it is, I am being carried away here with my own emotion).

Continue..?

anita