Dear John:

You are a mess, John. And you have been a mess for a long, long time.

You’ve been closed to all input offered you on your threads, including my own.

Your kids, her kids, you and her are all in trouble and yet you are still focused on a long ago woman who was in your life for a short time, an ex girlfriend.

You focus on a love story that doesn’t exist and is long gone while neglecting a true story, a real-life story that is happening right now, where “Things have gotten worse” and have been getting worse for a while.

Move away from fantasy, and from trying to “get it through her head”, and instead, get it through your own head that reality needs to be focused on, (not fantasy!).

anita