Dear Anita,

I love the lavender essence in Earl Grey! I am a huge fan of soothing smells like lavender, I even have some fresh lavender I add to earl grey as a special treat when I have time, like on a weekend. Do you have it with a splash of milk like the Brits do? I do! Maybe we can enjoy some Earl Grey tea together when we meet, no…Red wine with some orange slices – much better choice!

Can’t heal though unless you successfully do what she didn’t do

No more roaring Cali Chica.  Especially since we learned what a big root of the roar is from, the feeling of powerlessness.

I see now that power doesn’t have to be aggressive.  Being assertive is not aggressive, it is effective communication.

Having power doesn’t mean attempting to power OVER, it means harnessing my human-granted-self power that we all deserve.  Allowing myself to manifest this innate power that we all have and deserve.

Speaking your truth, effectively, without guilt – watching how that makes you feel – rinse and repeat