About your questions:

1. I don’t really feel comfortable going into depth about most of my weird habits, it seriously make me cringe so much sorry.

2. Well, she’s very emotional and simply too much at times, even on trivial stuff so simple small talks aren’t enough for her. She wants to talk about feelings and deep stuff that itself is not a bad thing but done by her can make you roll your eyes because she can’t simply chill and exagerate stuff in my opinion. I remember as a child she at times did melodramatic gestures or acting out and I don’t know, I can’t exactly explaining it.. maybe it’s simply that I don’t feel opening up to her cause I link in a period in which we were very close cause I expressed about my ocd and so, to a period that was very dark for me and that I wish to move past from.

3. She often laments that she had no sisters growing up so that’s why she wanted daughters and I guess in her mind her daughters aren’t exactly how she dreamed them to be.

let me know if you want more details