Dearest Anita,

You are not off topic at all, in fact you are exactly on topic. Oh my gosh what you have written has conjured up so many memories in me as well, so much to relate on, excellent timing. I have to be away from the computer for about two hours right now, but rest assured that as soon as I return I have so much to say about this. It makes entire sense why you are so emotional or triggered about this, and I have felt the same exact thing many times before. In fact – You just pinpointed another root of the baseline hostility! Likely for both of us. I  forward to elaborating further this afternoon.