Dear Anita,

Good day!

I read your last post and it reads perfectly to me.  I sum it up in this:

have fun, but don’t get too deep

It is best for her and I both, win-win.  Looking back when I got too deep, with her feelings about friends or this or that – I would take on this extra stress which is unnecessary and unhealthy – and lose-lose.  I will no longer do that.

Enjoy time with the puppy, know it may bite – but know that when you are doing playing with the puppy, it is okay to walk away and say see ya later!

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Back to the move aspect of things.  So now we don’t have as much pressure of “we already told his job here we are moving so that’s that”

We will spend the next week or 2 (given holidays are here there’s a lot of other things going on) to really let it all sink in.  It will truly be a difficult decision to make, and there are a lot of pros to each side.

I wonder how we will come to a conclusion!! I truly do!