Hi Bee,

I would make it a goal to move out. You can do it. It’s called rentals and roommates.

While you are living in his grandmother’s home, it’s imperative that you have one room that is completely yours. If there is paint or wallpaper, repaint it. Get Ikea furniture. Get a new mattress. Paint your own pictures. Replace the old pictures. Put your own photos out. Do this when he’s gone for a block of time. When he gets home it’s a done deal. “Oops!”

Then you can work on the bathrooms. New bathmats, new shower curtains. Etc.!

Every Christmas or Birthday gift him something new for the house. Slowly get rid of the old furniture. Keep the old ones in the basement or attic. (And get rid of one piece he’ll never miss once a year.) Do this twice a year.

In short, you need your own energy imprints (YOUR art, furniture) to make a house a home.

Best,

Inky