Yes that’s exactly what I think the problem is she has said that she thinks she has felt this way for a long time which as I think I have said that it’s sad to hear that but even worse that she felt that she could not talk to me and I sit in hope that it is temporarily but don’t hold to much hope with the way she is coming across that she is definitely done with the relationship but then I think that she has her defence up which could be why she is been this way