Dear Nia:

You are welcome. To be less worried that your husband will cheat on you, do your best to relax into the possibility that he will. Meaning, what if he will cheat on you? Will your life end, will you die of starvation, will you be homeless…?

Make yourself stronger, see to it that if you have to, you will be able to feed and shelter yourself without him, see that life for you is possible without him.

A young child is completely dependent on her parents, can’t feed or shelter herself alone. But a woman like yourself, you are not that dependent young child anymore.

Make yourself stronger, and you will be less afraid; less afraid, you will be less jealous and possessive.

anita