Anita I feel im stuck in circle it all just goes round as round my head my ex just can not give me answers he just says for him he thinks it’s over and he wants to be independent and that feels right for him he loves me but need to do this.for him he willing to take that risk.  So I need to accept this as I can’t change it it breaks my heart but I don’t want to be stuck and sad i n this constant analizing of what why how and why

Neil thanks for your comments it’s so hard when your partner turns out to be on a different page to you I too struggling with the social aspects as this was all wrapped up with him and his friends I feel very much alone and this current situation and lockdown is so hard I find it very overwhelming   I am 49 years old how do you start again make new friends I find the though of it very frightening