Dear CB:

You are welcome.

“I feel like I’m giving up on him, but I guess he gave up on me”- you didn’t accept yet the reality that he indeed gave up on you. Not accepting this reality, you think that.. if you accept the reality that he is no longer with you, you will be the one giving up on him!

You posted many times about not accepting this new, post-relationship reality, but you didn’t write much about how you feel about it. You wrote that you are heart broken but you didn’t elaborate on it. I suggest that you do elaborate next on how it feels to be heart broken. Use words to express yourself, it may he the thing to do for the purpose of accepting your new reality.

anita