Dear Tony,

Thanks for your response.

35 years sound crazy (not a judgement about you) to me.

In fact, I don’t really want to be in a relationship with him, just my obsession of letting people go makes me so. And I’ve always been aware that once there’s someone “better” here, I’d leave, yet the problem is there’s none and I’m not going to chase.

As for flattering ego, there’s a hint which told me that he’s a narcissist.

I’m not going to give what he wants!