@Kkasxo homie you got the courage in you too, do what will make you feel most fulfilled. It’s good you escaped to Southend for some peace, Central London yesterday was loud and heaving!

@Sammy So glad you touched base mate, are you ok? Thanks for your support, I never saw it in that way, so cool to get a woman’s perspective on the physical side but BLUE BALLs though mate lol.( I don’t know if it’s permissible to say that without being called a dick on here. Sighs.) Anyway she’s trying to not get me too excited bit difficult because I find her even more irresistible now, its fun but I’ve realised love is hard -in many ways lol but so worth the effort. I love being with her even holding her gives me an ease, definitely going to take it as her pace and respect her!

@Tim Bro 👊 thanks so much. Your understanding and experiences as a man have been an incredible help. Everything you said is on the money!!!! I think that’s exactly what’s happening..

I do feel deeply for her, I will not just blurt it out, I want to honour those words. I feel like I’m really growing up. After reading your post, I even researched emotion intelligence. Its referred as EQ on most sites. She has an abundance already and I’m going to work on improving mine, it’s the best advice!

During the first 6 months her sensitivity and softness I treated with disdain, I think because I didn’t like that in me after As betrayal but after reading that article and now understanding my feelings, it’s what will create LASTING LOVE. It’s the very traits in her which I feel endearing now. How foolish us men can be with real emotion!

Heres an article for @All I found it so useful:

How to Be Emotionally Intelligent in Romantic Relationships