@Jay / @Jay2023 @Dannydan

Guys, do you think I’m brutal? 😳 “cold” “hard” truths lol! I guess I don’t sugar coat it but I mean well.

Danny I’m genuinely sorry at the beginning I admit I did have a not so great opinion of you, maybe if I wasn’t in the middle of my own mess, I would have been a little more sympathetic. In the end you did the work and you proved to yourself and everyone exactly who you are and who ‘B’ saw. An inspiring, intelligent, resilient, loving and caring man who made a mistake, had the courage and capacity to admit his errors, take accountability and make amends. Then you thrived. It’s what we should all aspire to have: the drive to change for the better each day. I’m so glad you met your ‘B’ and like I’ve said before I hope you realise the huge amount of growth you have undertaken. Really proud and you restored my faith in men!

Jay, I completely understand if you just needed to write it all out to get it out of your system rather than needing advice. Feel free to dump your feelings anytime and put a side note of just venting. That will at least give me a heads up about what you are needing. Sorry if my advice was full on. Like Danny said we all choose the path we take, I jope you choose wisely. Keep us updated if you want. X