Dear Peace:

You asked regarding this 32 year old flat mate: “is he also using Guilt tripping??”- yes, reads like he too is guilt tripping you. Lots of people guilt trip people who are inclined to accept blame and feel guilty.

It is a way to have power over another person.

A person who guilt trips another is not a “very sincere, honest” person, like you described him to be. You wrote that he loves you (“cares for me.. loves me”)- a person who guilt trips you wants to have power over you, and that is not caring and loving.

You wrote: “I have done few mistakes by dealing with him”.- was one of those mistakes having sex with him?

anita