Anita,

Yes he lied about parents not allowed to the party and took his girlfriend and her son.

I read your second response and thought about it.  I just sent my ex an email stating I will keep the kids the entire time he is on vacation.  Our mediation paperwork lists “First right of refusal” stating the off duty parent will be given the first right to keep their children if the on duty parent is unable to directly care for the children. (he will be on vacation)